The Ending

We met on Grindr and dated for five months.

I’m allergic to dogs and cats, which made it impossible for me to sleep at your place. So without protest or compromise, you showed up at my door on a nightly basis — leaving your pets alone for the night.

I’m not particularly skilled in the kitchen, so you did most of the cooking. To make up for my culinary shortcomings, I gave you money for groceries and often took you out to dinner. You hated Thai and Indian, which could’ve been a deal-breaker, but wasn’t.

Do you remember that night at Slice on St. Charles? How we over-ordered and under-drank? Your cheeks were flushed when you talked about how much you loved your job. You asked a lot of questions and seemed genuinely interested in my answers, rambling or clipped. “So, copywriting,” you said, chewing on a gnarled piece of pizza crust. “Do you want to do this for the rest of your life?” I looked at you and felt my eyes soften. “I do,” I said. “For the rest of my life.”

I knew you were asking about my career, but I wanted you to read into my answer. Could he mean us?

Did I mean us? I don’t know. I might have. It felt like an option, right? I believe we had potential right from the start. Do you remember this? It was our first date.

From then on, I saw you nearly every day. We exploited every opportunity to see one another. To me, every responsibility was an obstacle between myself and being alone with you.

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We moved fast.

I met your friends and you met mine. We traded Christmas gifts. We kissed on New Years Eve. And then on Valentine's Day, we went to dinner at a fancy sushi place in the Warehouse District. We ordered four rolls and you drank sake for the first time. At one point, I reached across the table and ran my fingers through your hair because it was Valentine's Day and I wanted you to know that I was here. I was with you, right in the middle of this humming, low-lit, bottomless mine of kisses, and opportunity, and lassitude, and eventually — solace.

After dinner, we went home and had sex. We fell asleep face-to-face, jammed into one another with the mutual understanding that comes from closely studied intimacy. In the morning, we had sex again, because I heard somewhere that sex starts in the morning. “I have to shower,” I whispered before putting my mouth on yours and swiftly leaving the room.

I was digging through the dryer for fresh underwear when you started screaming at me.

You’d gone through my phone while I was in the shower and found texts from a guy I met on Instagram. The moment I processed why you were yelling, I screamed, “Get the fuck out!” without looking at you. Then, without saying a word, you slammed the door.

I finished getting dressed.

I went to work.

I worked until 5PM.

I went home.

I didn’t hear from you.

For the next few days, I took the stalemate in 12-hour increments — feeling cocky about my resistance but checking my phone with fervent compulsion. I could be vigilant, but I WOULD NOT break down.

Then one day, I realized a whole week had passed.

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As of today, it’s been three months and 22 days since I’ve heard from you.

I owe you an apology, don’t I?

But would it even matter at this point? Isn’t this the break-up scenario everyone wants? A clean break?

At least once a day, I feel guilty.

I never told you this, but you made the most unbelievable baked sweet potatoes I’d ever eaten. They were just sweet potatoes with cinnamon, sugar, and butter baked inside, but they were delicious because you made them.

Also, my friends really liked you. They saw you the way I did; beautiful, charming, and kind.

And one last thing.

You left your charcoal-colored cardigan at my place.

If you want it back, I'd be happy to meet you. 

It can be someplace public.

And I promise not to make it weird.

But if you don't want it back, I'd be happy to keep it.

It still smells like you.

And I love that smell.

Everything About Your Body

I can say without a spot of doubt that I know everything thing there is to know about your body.

Seriously, I’m an expert. The authority on all things Your Body.

I don’t earn anything for this, though.

Not a gold star sticker or an Associate’s Degree from one of those strip mall colleges that immigrants and former addicts go to.

Still, to me, this extensive and exhaustive knowledge has certain perks.

I’m privy to the fact that you HATE your hip tattoos.

I won an “I love you” when I blew a raspberry on your belly for the first time.

I get a low moan from your chest when I bite the tip of your left ear.

I know that I can slap your back-fat and you’ll swing at me — like fully bar-fight swing at me — whether we’re at my cousin’s birthday party or not.

But I’m proud to know what I know.

And best of all, I’m the only person in the world right now that has full access to the source material.

Feed

Come over here.

Do you have a second?

I won’t bother you long, but I’d like to bend your ear about a few things.

Do you have a second to talk about racism?

Before you say no, let me clarify:

Do you have a minute to have an opinion on racism?

Do you want to react to something racist?

Do you want to get invested in your opinion and share it?

Take a stance on #blacklivesmatter?

#alllivesmatter?

No?

Okay, then.

How about politics?

Hate Trump?

Love Trump?

Do you want to read something somebody wrote and feel repulsed by it?

Do you want to feel better or worse about how much or how little you’ve traveled?

Do you want to feel stuck in that town you're in?

Do you know who I am?

I am your Facebook Feed.

And I changed my mind about bothering you.

Do you want to spend the entire day together?

Just Cum

I’m walking up to the hottest guy at 700 Club when John grabs me by the wrist and spins me around. “Don’t do it man,” he says anxiously. “Just go home and cum.”

He gestures to the guy on the other side of the room. “He’s really, really out of your league,” he says with conviction. “Please don’t embarrass yourself!” I grab my best friend by the face and kiss him on the mouth. “Angel Dick,” I say cheerfully. “I’ve got this under control.” I turn and continue onward, towards the most beautiful man I’ve ever seen. Over the dull roar of the crowd, I can hear John. “C’mon dude!" he screams. "Just cum!”

The next morning, I wake up alone. I have early breakfast plans with my sister Rachel, so I roll out of bed and start getting dressed. Another Broken Egg is packed, but we don’t have to wait long for a table. We are having a loud and frustrating conversation about our mother when the server swoops by. “What can I get y’all to drink?” she asks. Rachel orders coffee and I order Tito’s on the rocks. The server stares at me. “Just vodka?” she says in disbelief. “Yes ma’am,” I say. “And keep them in rotation.” She looks from me to my sister, [who is checking Instagram from behind massive sunglasses], and back to me. “Honey,” she says timidly. “You sure you don’t want to make yourself jizz first?”

I bite my lip and nod my head. “Not right now, ma’am. Just the vodka.” She deflates. “But sweetheart, if ya just shot a little jizz, you might not need—” I clear my throat aggressively and she stops talking. I shift my attention back to Rachel and our server bolts away, snaking around tables and disappearing into the kitchen.

“Let’s go shopping,” I whine. Rachel slips her to-go box onto the passenger seat and slams the door. “You’re hammered,” she says, rounding the car and getting behind the wheel. “Go take a nap and text me later.” I heave an obnoxious sigh so that everyone on the porch at Another Broken Egg can hear me. “Fine,” I say. “I’ll go shopping alone.” Rachel starts the car and rolls down all of the windows. “You might just need to cum,” she says coolly before peeling out and leaving me unsupervised on the sidewalk.

In the dressing room, I try on eight shirts and decide to buy five of them. At the register, I get a text from my grandma. It says, “You’re about to spend $250 on T-shirts. Leave the shirts at the store, go blow a load, and then decide if you really want them.” I roll my eyes and text back, “Fuck you Mimi.”

Later, I buy heroin from a guy wearing a camisole. We’ve never met in person before, but we’re already acquainted, thanks to Craigslist. He hands me a tiny plastic bag and I trade him a sweaty wad of cash. We bump fists and turn away from each other. “Aye slim,” he yells. I spin around. “Yo, why don’t you get your nut and then maybe hit me up after.” He tires to hand me back my money, but I wave him off and step away. “Nah son,” I say. “I’m straight.”

I shoot up in an alley behind a Walgreen’s and wait for the waves to rip through me. I overturn my shopping bag and dump the T-shirts onto the ground. Then I flip my hood up and sprint across the street — into a crowded Capital One Bank.

Like all banks, it’s quiet and cavernous inside, even though it’s busy. I walk briskly passed a security guard, who is nodding off in a chair by the entrance. I bypass the line and stand behind a Pentecostal woman in an ankle-length denim skirt. “Get the fuck out the way, you stupid bitch,” I whisper. She doesn’t move so I bang her head against the countertop and she drops to the floor like a cinder block. The teller behind the counter looks up at me in horror. I toss the empty paper bag over to her and say, “Fill it up.” She looks up and me, furrows her eyebrows, and sucks in air through her teeth. “Yeahhh,” she says. “Are you sure you don’t wanna knock out a load before you do this?”

I look around the lobby and everyone is staring at us: the row of tellers, the line of customers, and even the security guard, who is wide-awake now. I feel something on my wrist, so I look down and see the teller’s hand on mine. “It’s okay,” she says softly. “It’s okay. Just blow your load and see how you feel after.” I look up, from our hands to her eyes. I don’t know why, but I trust her. “Can you give me a little room?” I say just loud enough for her to hear me. She backs away and I hop up onto the counter. I unzip my pants and yank my underwear around my thighs. I jack off while making sustained eye contact every one of the customers, including an elderly Korean woman and a black guy who looks like he wants to hit me. And then, without much warning, I cum.

When my eyes open, the bank is brighter. The people are smiling. My mind is clearer. I stretch my arms and crack my back. “Wow,” I say quietly to myself. I jump off the counter and turn to face the teller. She grins, nods, and gracefully touches my cheek. “I knew you were a good kid,” she says. “Just a little misguided when you're backed up.”

There are a few moments of silence as I gather myself and leave.

I’m so taken by this new outlook that I don’t even notice I’m tracking the Pentecostal woman’s blood across the elegant Italian marble floor and out the front door.

Why I'm Not Hard

I’m sorry. I think I'm just distracted. The TV is on. I paused it when we first started hooking up, but now there’s a static shot of Tina Belcher glaring at us from across the room. Let me just find the remote. Where’s the damn remote?! Fuck it. I’ll just get up. Okay, then. We should be good to go.

Whoa, stud. That feels really good. You’re so hot. Just like that. Yeah.

Nope. Nope. Nope. Not working. It’s like you’re gargling a jellyfish.

It’s got to be the ceiling fan, which is blowing around like a hurricane. I can’t really get a bone when I’m chilly. Let me just pop up and take care of that.

Well now that I’m standing, can I grab you a bottle of water? I’m a little dehydrated, myself. WAIT! That’s got to be it! We’ve been drinking all night. That’s why I can’t get hard!

Just let me grab a water and a couple of Advil and I’ll be solid as a rock in a couple minutes. Did you say you wanted some water? Vitamin or classic? 

Alright, alright. Let’s give this another shot.

BUT FIRST, do you mind if I take a piss? I’d hate for me to finally chub up and then pee a little on you. Unless you’re into that? No? Okay, then I’ll just be a moment.

I’m back! Daddy’s home. Sorry, I don’t know why I said that. You’re older than me. You probably remember the Challenger explosion, right? Oof, I’m sorry. I’m not really on my A-game right now. This whole boner thing is throwing me off my axis. Let’s just get back into it and see what happens. Thank you for being so patient and so attractive.

Okay, buddy. Here we go.

[10 MINUTES LATER]

Son of a bitch! It’s like trying to stuff a dinner roll into a Coke bottle. I apologize. I'm really trying my best here. I'm looking at you, and you're gorgeous, and on paper, this shouldn't be a problem at all. For Christ's sake, look at your body! It’s like you were built by Ryan Murphy!

Alright, look. I've got a lot on my mind right now; the presidential race and whatnot. Plus, I’m worried I’m not getting enough calcium. Also, what if someone asks me about my position on “Black Lives Matter?” I’m not prepared for that! And last night, instead of going to the gym, I ate between nine and twelve Girl Scout Cookies in this bed. Because life is all about choices. And I will always choose Samoas over sit-ups! I'm a vaguely chubby trainwreck and I don't like the way you're looking at me right now. You're making my dick turtle back into my body. Please! Look the other way! This is so humiliating!

HOLD ON! Three months ago, I dropped off a pair of Banana Republic slacks at the dry cleaners and haven't yet gotten around to picking them up. That's got to be it! Somewhere in my subconscious, the guilt over leaving my pants in the care of that lonely old Laotian man is tugging at me. And now I can't get an erection.

That’s definitely it!

Alright, you hang out for a minute and I’ll be right back. Don’t go anywhere. I’m just running out to the cleaners at 2AM to grab those slacks. I might be a few hours, so if you get bored, feel free to leave. Maybe we'll see each other in the future, but I'm moving to a small village outside of Prague in the morning, so you probably won't hear from me or see me around ever again. And please don't tell anyone about what happened here tonight because I want the local gay community to remember me fondly.

Farewell, champ. Help yourself to a cocktail on the way out.

Make yourself something stiff.

I'm sorry. I'll be going now.

Mandy

"Happy birthday," I said. "You're 23, right?"

She pulled a small drag out of her cigarette. "No," she exhaled. "Too old."

I swiveled on my heel, making a half-circle and finally facing away from her. "You're not old enough," I said just within earshot of the two of us.

In just under two hours, my workday begins. I will haul ass across the city from Lakeview to the Lower Garden District. I will make it to my apartment with plenty of time to toss today's outfit in the dryer and stand under the shower. I will glove and scarf and sweater and bicycle my way into the Central Business District. I will go to work. And at noon, I will leave and a lengthy, unmemorable Thanksgiving holiday will commence upon leaving.

But before that happens, I yell, "I love you."

I am approaching my car and she is behind me on the porch. I trudge forward, barley lifting my chin to bark the sentiment over my shoulder.

"I love you," she shouts back.

My first impulse is not to appreciate the moment, but to appreciate the fact that she didn't punctuate her response with a comma and a "too." It's an asshole's reaction, but I know she'll understand when I joke about it later.

I slide the key into the ignition, but I don't turn it. First, I've got to find the right driving music. I scroll and tap my way through Spotify until I find "Dancing In The Moonlight" by King Harvest. It's been in my head all night.

For a few moments, I sit still and listen to the lyrics. And then, when the chorus starts, I twist the key and yank the seatbelt across my chest to keep myself safe.

11:11

When 11:11 roles around, I wish that you would text me.

Since Thursday, I’ve never missed an AM or PM opportunity to submit my wish.

Now, it’s Monday morning and I’m up to eight consecutive, ritualistic wishes.

The truth is, I wasn’t aware I was doing it until this very moment.

I just checked my phone, and when I saw the time, I closed my eyes and wished.

I realize how incredibly mystic/passive/nuts this sounds, but it’s really the only action I can control to redirect you back to me.

Sure, I could text you. But then what?

I spend the rest of my day waiting for a reply?

I agonize over every word I wrote, second-guessing the language and grammar?

I fuck this up?

I could grab our relationship with both hands and steer. But for once, I want someone else to take the wheel.

And honestly, I just want to be the recipient of someone else’s impulse.

That’s not stupid, is it?

Texting you could also put what we’ve got in jeopardy.

Because right now, this is delicate and freshly minted.

To me, it’s safer to invest in shooting stars, and genies, and cyclical 12-hour chances.

My birthday isn’t until July, but I can reserve that wish for you, too.

We’ve got all the time in the world, don’t we?